Tuesday, October 9, 2018

California Fun!

On Friday Sept 28th, Joel and I rented a car and drove to California to meet up with the Tuanauu's to go through the Newport Beach Temple with Suene' to receive his endowments.  It was beautiful.  The night that Suene had opened his mission call, that took 2 weeks longer than usual because the Stake Pres. for got to send it, to the Anchorage Alaska Mission we asked them when he was going to go to the temple and they immediately started to talk about it.  We knew that the St. George Temple was closing for awhile for cleaning but unsure for how long.  Someone said that they thought it was until after conference. So, since they had to go to Cali for an Aunty's funeral the weekend before General Conference they decided to do it there.  Plus that way the family members wouldn't have to travel here again.  They had all come a couple weeks earlier when he had received his Melchizedek Priesthood.  SO, Vince asked us if we were coming and Joel said of course.  Instantly, the two if them started to see if there was a Dodger or A's home game that weekend too.  Sure enough, the A's were at home.  So, we were off.  We checked into the cheapest hotel that we could find that was also in the world's best location!  We will staying there every time we go to Cali!  It was nice and SHARED A PARKING LOT WITH DENNY'S!    That right there is a deal maker.  It also had a Wendy's across the street.  It was right off of the freeway exit and 15 minutes from everywhere!  Seriously, we loved this place.  It even had free wifi, a mini fridge and a microwave and we didn't even have to ask for it. 

Anyway, Saturday morning we met them all at the temple.  We had taken the kids to the Newport Beach Temple before but it was closed and we had to just take pictures from outside the gate.  This time we got to go inside.  It was gorgeous! But, as we were walking from the parking lot I couldn't help but take picture's of the outside of different places that I thought David would have liked to pose for our picture's together while we used to wait for everyone to get out of doing baptisms.   It was a happy/sad moment.  Happy that everyone can now go in but sad that I'll never have those kind of moments back with my little kids.  I don't like it when my kids grow up.

When we got inside Suene and Vince were sitting on a couch just beyond the entrance.  We gave them both a big hug and told Suene how proud and happy we are for him.  Vince is the only boy in his family.  He has 5 sisters and his father died a couple years ago. His dad was a caterer and made amazing Polynesian food.  So Vince has been the priesthood holder for that family.  Joel has always been like the brother that he has never had.  While we were in there Jen told us that they had gotten there a little early and had to wait for Suene's host to show his around.  They were very happy to see that it was a cute little old Polynesian man.  They were surprised that when the man asked what Suene's name was that he said, "I know your Grandfather!"  Suene was named after Vince's father who used to live in that area.  Everyone's eyes instantly filled with tears.  It all became perfectly clear that the Lords hand was indeed in all all things and had orchestrated an amazing miracle to get them all there at that exact time and place to hear this cute little old man talk about how wonderful grandpa was and how he used to love to eat his cooking.  Many things had to come together to make it all happen, a mission call had to be 2 weeks late, a death had to occur, our temple had to be closed, and this cute little old man had to be scheduled, not only to work but to help Suene out, on that day. WOW!  Such a tender mercy.  It was awesome to say the least.   I'm so glad that we were there to share it with them. 

We love Suene and know that he will be a great missionary.  He was a great coach/big brother to Ben and David.  They will miss so much.

Then that night we went on a double date with Jen and Vince to the baseball game.  It was great.  We were sitting 20 rows from the field.  Vince's Uncle has season tickets and they are amazing.   It was a lot of fun!  I will go to any game at any time!  I don't care who it is or where it is.  I just love the entire ambiance.  It's great!  The next morning we took our time getting up and checking out.  Then we walked to Denny's and ate breakfast and drove home.  It was a great weekend.  I'd do it all again in a heartbeat! 
 A youth group that just got out from doing baptisms!

Monday, September 17, 2018

Weekend fun!

This Saturday we had the Round-up P-raid, Matty had a cat birthday party and DSU won their football game.  Here are the highlights...
The only picture's I have of the parade are of us and the Ninja float and one of Emily because she is in the DHS play and they were singing and handing out flyers.   Dixie Fliers.  Bwhahahaa!   I crack myself up.  JoEllen made an awesome birthday cake that looked just like their cat Sandy.  They even played, pin the tail on the cat.  JoEllen is so good.
 Notice the cowboy hats and belt buckles?  Yeah Haw!

FOOTBALL STINKS!

Clearly the Lord is a Rugby fan.  That's all I'm going to say about that.

First let me start by saying that I helped the other mom's do lunch for the team Friday afternoon and it was a lot of fun.  I was wrong about the rich mom's on the team.  They are super nice and care about all of the boys, even Ben.  It has been really hard to come onto this team and not feel like the outsider.  If Ben hadn't played with one of these kids on a baseball or basketball team then I didn't know their parents and they didn't know me or Ben.  So, it was hard for them to give Ben a chance because they hadn't seen how great of an athlete he was.  But thankfully there were those mom's who had seen Ben play the other sports and knew what he could do.  A couple mom's were talking about how they loved it when their son's came up and gave them hugs and said how much they loved them.  I about died.  My jaw must have dropped because one mom asked what was wrong.  I told her that Ben needed lessons from her son.  then when the boys got out to lunch they gave Ben a hard time so he came and gave me a hug.  I think I'm going to like one part of this after all. It was a great afternoon. But...then the evening came and the game started.

 Back for 2nd's!
Here are their cute locker decorations.  Apparently they leave them on all season long.  Ben loves having the Becker's locker's right next to him plus Brady Barney and Noble Bellflower!  Lots of B last names!  This is definitely the cool part of the hall.
By the time we sat down all I saw was him just sitting on the bench with his helmet off holding his wrist.  So, I went to find some ice to put on it and the guy running the snack shack told me to find Michelle, the trainer, who was supposed to be down on the field, and pointed her out in the crowd.  I went and asked her to go look at Ben for me.  5 minutes later she was looking for me in the crowd.
 So, off we went to Instacare.

 We pulled up 5 minutes before game time and the line to get in was sooo slow and we missed the first play which resulted in a Becker touchdown for us!   Little did we know that on that play Ben got his RIGHT arm, this time, smashed between 2 helmets and this time both bones broke.  We left the game immediately and went to Instacare.  They took FIVE x-rays, unlike the stupid ER who took 2 last time, and then put him in a splint and sling and gave me a list of Orthopedic Surgeons to follow up with on Monday.  I immediately texted Joel and told him to text Nick Larsen and ask him if he could see Ben sooner than later. Nick did David's elbow surgery and is a good friend of ours.  He went to High school with Brian. Nick said to come in first thing on Monday.  So we did and Ben got a nice black cast.  We love Nick and are grateful for his help.  We got back in 6 weeks for check up.

EPIC DAY! Joel's first Parent teacher conference.

Today was the best day of my life!!!  I will NEVER have to go to another Parent Teacher Conference at Pine View Middle for as long as I live!!!!!!!!  WOO HOO!!!!  Joel will now just be able to talk to any teacher at any time that Ben is having problems with.  This is one of the best BLESSINGS in my life!  I know the  Lord loves me.